Personally, it has also really helped me to see crushes as general indications of what I generally(!), broadly value in others, not just the specific individual that I currently perceive to have this quality/trait. Connect that with the idea that there's no such thing as the one and only partner and you get a great feedback for what you might generally like in future friends and partners, even if it isn't necessarily the specific person that you're crushing on.
By: Pattie
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Also, while I was watching this video, something happened and Hannah Witton burst in.